By
Kristen Whirrett
Have realistic expectations. Yes, many of your church workers are paid. Yes, this is their job (for lack of a better word). But they can’t do everything on their own. A church is only as strong as all its members. Be involved in your congregation and don’t expect your church workers to do it all.
A
couple months ago, Anna wrote about supporting
your pastor. If you haven’t already read it, please do so! I’d like to
expand upon that topic today and encourage you to think about how you support
all your church workers. Let me start by giving you some background.
I’m
a PK (Pastor’s Kid) born to a Lutheran pastor and his Lutheran school-teacher
wife. My mother became a stay-at-home mom when I was born, but continued
serving as the church organist. I, quite literally, grew up in our little
Lutheran church on a hillside in San Antonio. After high school, I attended
Concordia University-Seward, where almost all my friends went into church work
as teachers, pastors, DCE’s, and parish musicians, to name a few. I became a
Lutheran school teacher who taught in Cincinnati before getting married to
another Lutheran school teacher and moving to Fort Wayne to teach. With the
birth of our son last March, I became a stay-at-home mom who still teaches
music at a Lutheran school two afternoons a week. My life and livelihood has
always been in the Lutheran church.
The
tasks of Lutheran church workers vary. Unfortunately, it sometimes feels as
though we professional church workers are overlooked and unsupported. Lay
people don’t always realize that their DCE, deaconess, or other church worker
could use more help or even just more encouragement. Yes, we are called to
serve as we do. Please know I am not complaining. Rather, I am asking you to
support your pastor and church workers. Here are three simple things I would
encourage you to remember in regards to all your professional church workers.
Have realistic expectations. Yes, many of your church workers are paid. Yes, this is their job (for lack of a better word). But they can’t do everything on their own. A church is only as strong as all its members. Be involved in your congregation and don’t expect your church workers to do it all.
Acknowledge
your church workers. When
was the last time you sincerely complimented your pastor on his sermon? When
was the last time you stayed to listen to the entire postlude your organist
played? When was the last time you really looked at the art work your school
teachers displayed in the hallway? When was the last time you asked your DCE
how his latest youth group event went? Take the time to notice what your church
workers are hard at work doing!
Encourage. Encourage your
church workers in their ministry. It is easy to point out the negatives, but
look for positives. Yes, we are sinners and we make mistakes. We work long
hours and are away from our families (probably too much). We aren’t getting
wealthy on a church work salary. Thank your church workers for what they do
day-in and day-out, year after year. Encourage them, whether with a compliment,
a written note, or even a simple gift. Find some way to encourage your church
workers on a regular basis.
Our
Lutheran churches are richly blessed by our called and professional church
workers. Remember them in your prayers as we all serve and worship the Lord
together!
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After graduating from Concordia Seward and serving as a Lutheran teacher for a decade, Kristen is now a stay-at-home Mom. She still teaches music part time at one of the 16 Lutheran schools in Fort Wayne. Kristen writes about living both frugally and joyfully on her website –Joyfully Thriving. When she’s not busy finding good bargains, you might find her reading with her son or baking something chocolate. Kristen’s husband, Andy (another Lutheran school teacher), is living this frugal Lutheran journey with her, as they raise their 9-month old son, Nathan.
Title Image: "A Meeting of the School Trustees" by Robert Harris, 1885
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